Crime And Punishment


God do I have a lot to get off my mind.  I called Mr. Anderson yesterday (after he posted a bunch of garbage about me on my own blog) to let him know that I would be pressing charges unless he called me and told me everything he had done.

He called.

I asked him what on earth had possessed him to use my blog as a weapon against me and my children.

His reply was that I had used his real first name.

For Christ’s sake the guy consented to public pictures of his face, but wasn’t okay with my using his very common first name??

I told him he could have let me know that that bothered him in a different way, such as a phone call, text, or message….

But no.

He let me know by endangering the current full legal and physical custody I have of my twin boys, so I’ll drop a few more names.

How about the welfare of Jaxon Tyler Bonczar?

And what about Henry William Bonczar?

You put his life in jeopardy when you do things like publicly saying that a mother (who is already under a microscope) is doing illegal things when her kids are around.


Because it turns out that what you say matters.

It means the difference between “shared custody,” split holidays and birthdays, not knowing where you’re going to sleep at night, being subject to tense, horrible periods of “visitation” with your parents instead of going home with them…..and so much more.

Nightmares, Night Terrors, vocal or physical tics, obsessive and compulsive behaviors because they just need SOMETHING that they can control.  When they get older it’ll be rebelliousness and self-mutilation……get it??

What you say matters.

What you do matters.

Don’t use it for making the world worse.

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